Woke up this morning with a smile on my face. A message from my honey said he loves me. It's hard to imagine that only a few days ago, we were almost going to break up because of something I did. This got me thinking about our relationship. He mentioned to me one time that he noticed that we'd end up in a semi-fight everytime we see each other. I had to agree, he was right. I noticed the same thing. It seemed though that the semi-fights happened after our first month. Have we moved on from the honeymoon phase to the next phase? Have feelings matured between us? Has the relationship started taking on a new form or constantly improve?
Do relationships that start with sex/making love mature faster?
I have been through a few relationships and so far, all of them didn't last long. I only consider myself having had one ex-boyfriend as I only had on "official" boyfriend prior to my current boyfriend. Others came along but nothing worked out that well because it started with sex, nothing else to look forward to. But my point is, when a couple become a couple, and sex was the instrument for them to be together, will their relationship mature or move faster than usual. This goes for either straight relationships or otherwise.
I remember telling my honey that I had this theory about gay relationships. The theory goes, each month a gay couple goes through represents 6 months to a year in straight relationship years. The idea sprouted from the fact that not a lot straight relationships start off for/by/with sex. I can yack all I can about this but of course, I could be mistaken.
Last night was amazing. Dinner, onto my honey's place. I loved the STAR WARS Trilogy VCD he gave me. He remembered that I have been wanting to catch the earlier STAR WARS movies after getting the whole story of the "epic" series. Thanks honey! Love you! Here's to more months and years.
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