Let's face it. People get deeply affected when it's love that's being talked about. More so if it is about falling out of love.

That's not what I am trying to write just about now though. I just want to let out my thoughts on what I think should be done in the current situation my friend is in. I won't necessarily have to relay what has been happening as I might make certain mistakes on some points or scenarios.

I guess all I want to say is, it is ok to express one's love. It is ok to let the other person know what you feel, to let all the emotions pour out from inside you. But, I believe that we all have limitations. That we all should be mature enough to supress ourselves from going all out. I think there's a line between mad about love and just plain mad.

As I always think about predicaments in a manner where I try to imagine what Carrie Bradshaw (Sex and the City) would do, I try to recall what she thinks on the above situation. What would Carrie do if she loves someone who's already attached. A ha! Mr. Big. She had sex with him. More than once. She even ended up being caught by Big's wife (then). Ugh. So do I tell a friend that he should fuck the love of his life. Add to this the probability of him being caught by the boyfriend. Complications complications.

Anyway, I'm trying now to think what I'd do if I were out hitting the clubs with the guy I absolutely have a huge ass crush on, nee, almost love. Knowing how much I want to let him know I'm this fabulous person and that I could do so much better, I'd probably flirt with him till the wee hours of the night er.. morning. But then, knowing me, my friends would be there (and I would be pretty sure they know my situation), I'd be told to quit it. I'd end up crying. Crying for myself. Crying coz I know I can't have my candy. I can't have my Prada shoes. I can't have him. But then, it will dawn on me. If I can love someone I can't have this much, what more someone that I can actually have.

I'll feel much better. I'd pick myself up. Go up to him. "I know that you know that I love you. God knows why but I do. I'm not a bad person, really. I made a huge mistake. I really want you to be happy and since I can see that you are, I'll leave you be. I will have to keep you on my phone book just in case I want to meet up with you again for coffee or whatever, but right now, I think it best for me not to see you, yet." I seal those words with a friendly kiss on the cheeks and forehead. Walk away like the diva I am.

*Sigh*... wow, that was one amazing scene. Hmmm... oh well, I'd go do that or copy something off of the move "My Best Friend's Wedding".

To you, my friend. I hope you'll find the light bulb moment with your current situation. You know how I hate good people being in a horrible slump. Labs yah buddy!